Separate but Equal or Joint Checking?
I’ve been debating for a few months of switching things up with how to handle the finances. Right now my wife and I only have one joint checking account where everything goes in, and everything comes out. While this has worked for quite awhile, it does create a challenge when one of us needs something or wants to do something, yet the bills have to be considered too. I know some people who do a yours and mine account and pay for half the bills. While it may seem to work for them, it feels very separated instead of working together.
The idea I had was to have three accounts, a sort of yours, mine, and ours type of thing. Paychecks would be deposited into separate accounts and then a percentage of the monthly costs would be transferred to the one in the middle. The only question is when it comes to personal debt we both have, should those be considered a joint expense? I make quite a bit more than my wife is currently and if this were the case, I think she would have trouble keeping up with her payments. That would be the point where I feel she would begin to think that this is unfair to her and wanting to go back to the old way.
If we combined all our bills and household expenses as they are so we have no individual payments, roughly 70% of each of our income would take care of this. This would leave us each with the remaining left over. I would have several hundred per month and my wife only a few hundred left over. Since I naturally don’t live in the moment, but rather the future the bulk of ‘my’ money would go directly towards getting us out of debt.
Sometimes the best thing is to do nothing at all and leave it the way it is. Joint account just means we need to both work together to manage the money and meet our wants and needs. The basics just always have to come first like food, shelter, utilities, clothes, and transportation. Beyond this basic structure are luxuries that we choose to have: HDTV, cell phones, Internet, and the like. We also have the credit card debt we’re working on, and the student loans that have to be paid back. I’m just weighing the options here openly on the blog as thinking out loud. Feel free to leave a comment on the subject.



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